So what if we overthink.....that's what makes us a woman!!

Ready, set, and go. I am finally doing this without any over thinking, weird right? My name is Kasey I am 29 years young and I love to over think, I think it's just part of my womanly duties, I'm learning to have a love hate relationship with it. I am engaged to the cutest, funniest, craziest, best looking man in this whole entire world. We got engaged on June 1st of this year and soon after that the wedding planning began. Exciting right? You would think so but let's be honest planning a big wedding is NOT what I call fun lol. Don't get me wrong it has it's special moments and in the end it will be the most special funnest day of our lives.....so they say ;). 

For a man planning a wedding is as easy as saying 123, for a woman it's as easy as saying the alphabet backwards....I don't know if you have ever tried this before but it is very difficult to say the least and I highly recommend not trying it. There is so much to think about when it comes to a wedding, from flowers, to make up, to shoe colors, to hair, to how many drinks should I have before I walk out and make one of the biggest most happiest decisions of my life, to how I should smile at the crowd as I am walking out, to how long should I kiss for after we say I do, to giving everyone hugs or just close family and friends, and the list goes on. This is only a very small portion of what goes through a woman's mind when she is trying to plan this big day she has been dreaming about her whole life.  I mean, it has to be perfect because we are about to marry our perfect prince charming and start our perfect life...right?

Am I making you tired yet? Hope not, because I am just getting starting. So anyways back to women and their over thinking, IT"S NOT OUR FAULT I REPEAT IT"S NOT OUR FAULT. Ladies show this to the man in your life so he can see it in writing. We didn't choose to be born a woman and believe me, if I could go back to the moment I was being created I would and I would ask god kindly to please make me a boy. Being a woman has it's positives but when you do a side by side comparison with a man's life it's extremely lopsided. For example.......

• Women have to have a period once a month, men don't have to go through anything once a month. Even though I swear they have some sort of PMS on a monthly basis but it hasn't been scientifically proven yet, I am working on that. 
• Women get blamed for acting crazy even though it's not our fault, we can't control it, you men just need to learn how to cope with it and maybe give us a hug when we are being irrational. Men get the privilege of being able to act some what normal throughout their lives.
• Women have to wake up, shower, shave, blow dry hair, decide what to do with our hair, put on our make-up even though we don't want to, pick out an outfit according to the weather/ activities we will encounter for the day, and then pick out shoes to match accordingly to our outfits. I don't know about all of you but by the time I am done doing all of this I am already tired with the day lol.  Men get to wake up shower, throw a hat on or run some gel through their hair, grab a shirt and some pants and their done. My fiance always teases me about this when we are getting ready to go somewhere errrrrrr.
• This is the most unfair one of them all even those it's something special we get to experience and men don't, women have to carry a growing human in their stomachs for 9 months and deal with all the scary changes that are happening to their bodies/minds and then deliver the baby. The only thing men have to worry about is us being crazy while we are pregnant. They have it so rough......

So when it comes to over thinking we win by 100% ladies so keep it up, learn to embrace it and love it for what it is. I mean what would men do without us, we keep this world turning and them on the right track rather they want to admit it or not. 

Ok, I am so done I said I wasn't going to over think this but I kinda did and now my head hurts lol. Have a good night :)

Till next time, 
Kasey the over thinker :)